Rest

How to rest

To rest, detach from work in your free time: get it out of your head, not just off your desk. Sitting still is not the same thing. A meta-analysis that pooled 91 samples and 38,124 employees found that people who detached from work after hours reported less exhaustion and better sleep (Wendsche and Lohmann-Haislah, 2017).

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What rest is

What rest is, according to the research.

Researchers who study rest after work call it recovery, and they measure it by asking what your free time was like. Two psychologists, Sonnentag and Fritz (2007), built the questionnaire most of this research uses and tested it on 930 people. It asks about 4 kinds of experience, which they call recovery experiences. Here they are, with what each can look like on a weeknight.

  • Experience 1

    Psychological detachment

    Work is out of your head, not just off your desk.

    On a weeknight: The laptop closed and work email logged out.

  • Experience 2

    Relaxation

    Your body and mind slow down.

    On a weeknight: A bath, a slow walk, music.

  • Experience 3

    Mastery

    Something challenging that is not work.

    On a weeknight: A new recipe, a language lesson, a climb.

  • Experience 4

    Control

    You decide what to do with the time.

    On a weeknight: An evening you planned yourself.

A later review of the field found that recovery activities like exercise, and recovery experiences like detachment, go with less exhaustion and more vigor, the feeling of having energy (Sonnentag, Venz and Casper, 2017). It found the same pattern for short breaks, free evenings and vacations. Recovery also seemed to be helped by time in nature.

Detachment, the first of the four, has been studied enough to have a meta-analysis of its own: a study that pools the results of many earlier ones. Detaching from work in free time had a correlation of 0.36 with less exhaustion and 0.30 with better sleep, on a scale where 0 means no link and 1 a perfect one. Doing work tasks in free time had a medium-sized link to less detachment.

Where free time goes

Where Americans’ free hours go.

The American Time Use Survey, a large yearly government survey of how people in the US spend their days, shows where free time goes. People aged 15 and over averaged 5.16 hours a day of leisure in 2025, weekends included. For employed people it was 4.17 hours.

Leisure in hours a day, everyone 15 and over and employed people, 2025
Hours a day Everyone Employed
Watching TV2.611.98
Games and computer use for leisure0.620.53
Socializing and communicating0.580.54
Relaxing and thinking0.350.27
Sports, exercise and recreation0.340.32
Reading0.270.18
Other leisure, including travel0.380.35
All leisure5.164.17

Source: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, American Time Use Survey 2025 results, Table 11A, released . People age 15 and over, averaged over every day of the year.

Two things stand out. TV is about half of all leisure. And the survey has no line for scrolling a phone: it records one main activity at a time, by what it was. So the national numbers cannot tell you how much of your evening went to a feed. Only your own count can.

Rest or drift

Real rest hours versus scrolling hours.

Screen time is not automatically the problem, and not all of it is rest. Two studies show where the line falls.

The first is about guilt. In a survey of 471 people, those who were already worn out were more likely to see their TV or video games as procrastination, something done instead of what they felt they should be doing (Reinecke, Hartmann and Eden, 2014). The guilt that followed went with less recovery from the same entertainment.

A show you chose, and watch without guilt, can count as rest. The same show, half-watched while you feel you should be doing something else, recovers less.

The second is about work. In a diary study, where people answer a few questions each day, 70 employees reported on 4 workdays how much they used their smartphone for work after hours (Derks, van Mierlo and Schmitz, 2014). On days they used it more, they detached from work less, and less detachment went with more exhaustion.

So the useful split is not screens against no screens. On one side is chosen rest: a walk, people, a book, a hobby, a show you picked. On the other is drift, an hour that went to the phone without a decision, and work that followed you home.

Try it

Sort one evening into rest and drift.

Pick a recent workday. Set when work really ended and when you fell asleep, then split the hours in between. Rough is fine.

An example person’s evening, from their own words.

Work ended
7:00 PM
Asleep
12:00 AM

Your evening: 5h, with 50m not sorted yet.

Out and moving
0h
People
0h
A show you picked
45m
Learning or making something
0h
Reading
0h
Phone, without deciding to
2h 30m
Work or work email
0h
Getting home, dinner, chores
55m

Chosen rest

45m

Drift

2h 30m

Work

0h

Chosen rest Drift Work Getting home, dinner, chores

Most of this evening went to the phone without a decision.

A workweek of evenings like this

Chosen rest
3h 45m
Drift
12h 30m
Work
0h

Five workday evenings.

Which of these did tonight have?

The four recovery experiences researchers ask about. Nothing is scored.

    Last night: 45m of rest, 2h 30m on the phone.

    These are your guesses. Your real hours come from your day. Nothing you enter leaves this page.

    A worked example

    Two Wednesday evenings, three weeks apart.

    The two evenings below belong to the example person on this page, an office professional, told in their own words. Both are loaded in the tool above, so you can sort them yourself.

    Wednesday, week one
    Example person
    “Phone in bed until 12:45 last night, alarm at 6:15. Train at 6:45, in the office at 7:30 to get ahead. Work from 7:30 to 7, meetings most of the day. Lunch from 12:30 to 1, a sandwich at my desk. Train home, 40 minutes. Too tired to cook, cereal at 8:15. Lay on the couch with my phone from 8:30 to 11. Watched one episode from 11 to 11:45. Asleep around midnight.”

    The hours it became

    Phone

    3h 15m

    • Work11h
    • Sleep5h 30m
    • Using Phone3h 15m
    • Travel & Commute1h 25m
    • Food & Meals45m
    • Entertainment45m
    • Unaccounted1h 20m

    22h 40m of 24 hours accounted for. Unaccounted is the time the words never mentioned.

    An example person's day, read and counted by the app. A made-up person, not a real user. Real output from the part of Think in Numbers that reads your words and adds up the hours (version v21), last run on with the app’s starter categories. Stored as written, not edited.

    Wednesday, week four
    Example person
    “Up at 6:15. Train at 7:30. Work from 8:30 to 6. Lunch with a coworker from 12:30 to 1:15. Train home. Second evening walk this week, from 7 to 7:45. Cooked dinner from 7:45 to 8:30. Watched a show from 8:45 to 10:15. Read in bed and asleep at 11:15.”

    The hours it became

    Reading

    1h

    • Work8h 45m
    • Sleep7h
    • Travel & Commute2h
    • Food & Meals1h 30m
    • Entertainment1h 30m
    • Self-Growth1h
    • Fitness45m
    • Unaccounted1h 30m

    22h 30m of 24 hours accounted for. Unaccounted is the time the words never mentioned.

    An example person's day, read and counted by the app. A made-up person, not a real user. Real output from the part of Think in Numbers that reads your words and adds up the hours (version v21), last run on with the app’s starter categories. Stored as written, not edited.

    On the phone took 3h 15m of the day, most of it on the couch from 8:30 PM to 11:00 PM. Chosen rest came to one episode of a show.

    On there was a 45m walk after work, 1h 30m of a show, and 1h of reading in bed. The phone took 0m.

    Nothing heroic changed. The workday ended at 6:00 PM, the phone stayed off the couch, and the evening got a walk at the start and a book at the end. The show stayed.

    How to recharge

    How to recharge after work: six changes.

    1. Set a time when work ends, and log out of work email on your phone. In the meta-analysis above, doing work tasks in free time had a medium-sized link to less detachment.
    2. Start the evening with something that is not a screen. A short walk, a call, cooking. The first half hour often decides what the rest of the evening becomes.
    3. Choose your show. Pick it, watch it, and let it count. The guilt, not the TV, is what the study linked to less recovery.
    4. Do one thing a week that is hard and is not work. Mastery, a challenge outside work, is one of the four recovery experiences. It might be a class, an instrument or a long run.
    5. Get outside when you can. The review of recovery research found that recovery seems to be helped in natural environments.
    6. Keep one full day a week with no work. The section on rest days below says why.

    The myths

    Two myths about rest.

    “Rest means doing nothing.”

    Doing nothing can be rest, and so can doing a lot. Mastery, a challenge outside work, is one of the four recovery experiences researchers measure. Physical exercise is one of the recovery activities the review names.

    Many pages on this question list seven types of rest. That list comes from Sacred Rest, a book by Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, as Harvard Health notes. It can be a helpful way to think about rest, but it is not what the studies on this page measured. The research uses the four experiences above.

    “A vacation will fix it.”

    A vacation helps, briefly. A meta-analysis of vacation studies found a small lift in health and well-being, an effect size (a standard measure of how big a change is) of 0.43 (de Bloom and colleagues, 2009). The lift faded soon after people went back to work. Rest that lasts is the kind that comes back every evening and every week.

    A day of rest

    Why a full rest day matters.

    A rest day here means a day with no paid work, not a day off from the gym. In the American Time Use Survey, 29.6% of full-time workers worked on an average weekend day or holiday.

    Source: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, American Time Use Survey 2025 results, Table 4, released . People age 15 and over, averaged over every day of the year.

    The clearest evidence for a weekly rest day is old, and about output, not feelings. An economist went back to records of British munition workers from the First World War and found that working seven days instead of six cost about 10% of the week’s output for the same hours (Pencavel, 2014).

    A rest day does not have to be empty. The example person’s Sunday, , had a long walk in the park, lunch with their sister, reading on the couch, dinner, a show and a book in bed.

    The rest day, in their words
    Example person
    “Slept until 7:45. Coffee and breakfast on the balcony until 9. Long walk in the park from 9:30 to 11. Lunch with my sister from 12:30 to 2. Read on the couch from 2:30 to 4. A full rest day, laptop shut, work email logged out. Cooked dinner from 6 to 7. Watched a show from 7:30 to 9:30. Read in bed and asleep at 11:15.”

    The hours it became

    Reading

    3h 15m

    • Sleep8h 30m
    • Self-Growth3h 15m
    • Food & Meals2h 15m
    • Entertainment2h
    • Fitness1h 30m
    • Family & Friends1h 30m
    • Unaccounted5h

    19h of 24 hours accounted for. Unaccounted is the time the words never mentioned.

    An example person's day, read and counted by the app. A made-up person, not a real user. Real output from the part of Think in Numbers that reads your words and adds up the hours (version v21), last run on with the app’s starter categories. Stored as written, not edited.

    The test

    How you know it is working.

    The test

    One day a week with no work, no work after your set time on workdays, and more hours of chosen rest than of drift

    for 3 weeks in a row.

    A good way to run this test counts your evenings from what you already write or say about them. A walk, a book and two hours on the phone each land as hours, with no timer to start. Most journaling apps stop at how the evening felt. The word “restless” is in there. The hours on the couch with the phone are not.

    One app built for this is Think in Numbers, a smart journaling app with time tracking built in.

    You write or say your day in your own words, as it happens or all at once. The app reads what you wrote and counts the hours that went to each part of it: work, reading, walks, your phone, and the time you never mentioned (shown as unaccounted). Then it shows those hours over days and weeks.

    Write my first day

    For iPhone and Android. Try it on your own day before you pay.

    The test runs three weeks because one restful week can be luck, and because the vacation research says the effect of a single break fades. The habit is what you are testing.

    Here is how four weeks went for the example person from the two evenings above.

    Example person
    PhoneReading

    Four weeks of phone and reading hours

    Phone a week

    9h 55m2h

    7h 55m less in week four than in week one

    Reading a week

    0m5h 45m

    5h 45m more in week four than in week one

    1. Week one

      9h 55mPhone

      0mReading

      The phone most evenings, in bed and on the couch.

    2. Week two

      2h 50mPhone

      3h 30mReading

      Work email off the phone. A walk and a book on Sunday.

    3. Week three

      1h 45mPhone

      1h 30mReading

      A deadline week, and the evenings went back to work.

    4. Week four

      2hPhone

      5h 45mReading

      Walks after work, a book in bed, the phone kept short.

    An example person's four weeks, each day read and counted by the app. A made-up person, not a real user. Real output from the part of Think in Numbers that reads your words and adds up the hours (version v21), last run on with the app’s starter categories. Stored as written, not edited.

    In week one, the phone took 9h 55m and there was no reading at all. In week four, the phone took 2h and reading 5h 45m, with 3h 45m of walks and runs and 7h with family and friends.

    The shows stayed, at 11h 45m in week one and 11h 15m in week four. Rest did not mean giving them up.

    Beyond rest

    When rest does not help.

    Rest that does not help may not be a rest problem. If you rest and still feel exhausted, or cannot switch off however you spend the evening, talk to someone. The NIMH, a US government research institute, advises that if you are struggling to cope, or your symptoms won’t go away, it may be time to talk to a professional.

    Start with a doctor. In the US, if you are in emotional distress, call or text 988, or chat online at 988lifeline.org. It is free, confidential and open all day, every day (the 988 Lifeline). This page reports what research found. It is not medical advice. For the workload side, see how to prevent burnout.

    Sources

    Where the numbers come from.

    Every figure on this page links to one of these sources, read on the date shown or in full.

    1. Wendsche, J. and Lohmann-Haislah, A. (2017). A meta-analysis on antecedents and outcomes of detachment from work. Frontiers in Psychology, 7, 2072.
    2. Sonnentag, S. and Fritz, C. (2007). The Recovery Experience Questionnaire: Development and validation of a measure for assessing recuperation and unwinding from work. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 12(3), 204 to 221.
    3. Sonnentag, S., Venz, L. and Casper, A. (2017). Advances in recovery research: What have we learned? What should be done next? Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 22(3), 365 to 380.
    4. Reinecke, L., Hartmann, T. and Eden, A. (2014). The guilty couch potato: The role of ego depletion in reducing recovery through media use. Journal of Communication, 64(4), 569 to 589.
    5. Derks, D., van Mierlo, H. and Schmitz, E. B. (2014). A diary study on work-related smartphone use, psychological detachment and exhaustion: Examining the role of the perceived segmentation norm. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 19(1), 74 to 84.
    6. Harvard Health Publishing (read ). The 7 types of rest and why we need them all.
    7. de Bloom, J., Kompier, M., Geurts, S., de Weerth, C., Taris, T. and Sonnentag, S. (2009). Do we recover from vacation? Meta-analysis of vacation effects on health and well-being. Journal of Occupational Health, 51(1), 13 to 25.
    8. Pencavel, J. (2014). The Productivity of Working Hours. IZA Discussion Paper No. 8129, Institute of Labor Economics.
    9. Masicampo, E. J. and Baumeister, R. F. (2011). Consider it done! Plan making can eliminate the cognitive effects of unfulfilled goals. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 101(4), 667 to 683.
    10. U.S. National Institutes of Health, NIMH (read ). I’m So Stressed Out! Fact Sheet.
    11. 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (read ). 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.

    Source: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, American Time Use Survey 2025 results, Table 11A and Table 4, released . People age 15 and over, averaged over every day of the year.

    Rest is not the hours left over after everything else. Put them on the plan first, and count them.

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    Questions

    Questions people ask.

    How do I relax after work?

    Start by getting work out of your head: a set end time, and work email off your phone. In a meta-analysis of 38,124 employees, detaching from work in free time went with less exhaustion and better sleep. Then do something you chose: a walk, a call, a show you picked.

    How do I rest when I can’t stop thinking about work?

    Write down what is unfinished and when you will do it. In experiments by Masicampo and Baumeister, a specific plan for an unfinished goal stopped it popping into people’s thoughts. Then do something that takes your attention: a hard hobby, a conversation, a walk somewhere new.

    Is watching TV rest?

    It can be. In a survey of 471 people, entertainment gave less recovery when people felt guilty about it, as if they were putting off something they should be doing. A show you chose and enjoy counts. Hours of it you did not choose may not.

    Is scrolling on my phone rest?

    Sometimes, briefly. Work email on the phone is not rest: in a diary study, more work smartphone use after hours went with less detachment from work. A useful test is whether you chose the hour or it happened to you.

    How much rest do I need a day?

    No study gives one number. For comparison, employed Americans averaged 4.17 hours of leisure a day in 2025, across all days of the week. More useful is the trend in your own: rest hours rising and drift falling, week over week.

    What should I do on a rest day?

    Anything that is not work, ideally something you chose. The four recovery experiences are a guide: switching off from work, slowing down, doing something challenging that is not work, and being in charge of your own time.

    Do I need a rest day from the gym?

    That is a different question, about recovering from exercise, and this page does not cover it. Ask a coach or your doctor.

    What are the seven types of rest?

    A list from the book Sacred Rest by Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: physical, mental, spiritual, sensory, creative, emotional and social rest. Recovery research measures rest after work with four experiences instead: detachment, relaxation, mastery and control.

    Try it on my day.

    Write today down in your own words, and see where the hours went.

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